Chat slang dictionary

A question asking for someone’s age, gender, and where they live. It was the universal opener of early chatrooms and Omegle — often the very first message strangers exchanged.

A casual check-in asking what the other person is up to right now.

Shorthand for asking how someone is doing.

Bounces a question back to the other person. Also written “hbu” (how about you).

Expresses agreement or sincerity. “fr fr” doubles the emphasis.

A stronger “I swear / I’m serious”. Similar energy to “fr” but more emphatic.

Signals you’re about to be honest — often before a compliment, confession, or hot take.

Prefaces an honest opinion, similar to “ngl” but older and more neutral.

Marks a statement as personal opinion. “IMHO” adds “humble”.

Offers input while acknowledging the other person may not need it.

Exactly what it says — “I don’t know”. Often paired with “idc” (I don’t care).

Indifference — can be relaxed (“whatever works”) or dismissive depending on tone.

Retracts or drops what you just said.

Stepping away from the chat briefly.

Not at the device right now. Born in gaming and old-school chat.

You’re leaving the conversation.

A goodbye implying you’d chat again.

The offline world, as opposed to online.

A private message on a social platform.

A chat with three or more people.